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30 by 30 – Part Three

As promised here is part three of the 30 by 30 list posted by The Frisky.

21. Sheets that don’t scratch.

Check. Un-Check. I don’t think they do but I’ve just been informed otherwise.

22. A nightstand that doesn’t say “Handle with care” on the side.

Check.

23. A smile he uses generously.

Check. I’m getting a small wrinkle in my face from using it so much.

24. At least one lamp that didn’t once belong in a dorm room.

Check. Have gotten a couple  since getting married.

25. Enough confidence to approach someone he finds attractive.

I talk with people all the time while at work and out of the house. If I was single I think I could do this, but hope to never need to find out.

26. Enough sense not to use a cheesy pick-up line. (When in doubt, say “hello!”)

My jokes are cheesy enough (and I’m married) so I don’t need cheesy pick-up lines.

27. A great razor.

A nice one yes, but I have yet to purchase my first electric razor. Have always wanted one. (Hint: Birthday gift idea. November is on the way.)

28. The beginning of a nest egg.

The very very beginning.

29. A place where everyone knows his name.

If a job and a few family/friend’s homes count, then yes.

30. At least one sex move he’s received lots of positive feedback on.

I’ve got at least one. *wink*

That leaves my final score at a weak 23 out of 30. It seems I’m doing alright, but could improve. Looks like I have some work ahead of me before I turn 30 next year.

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30 by 30 – Part Two

As promised here is part two of the 30 by 30 list posted by The Frisky.

11. A great road map when there’s no one to ask.

I’ve got one or two of them in my car for when Abigail is not with me. My phone is not fancy enough to include maps or anything cool like that.

12. A favorite cookbook.

Working on this one. I have several cookbooks in the house, but am only just starting to try them out now.

13. A decent set of pots and pans.

Decent set of pots and pans yes. Nice? No, but in time I will.

14. An emergency kit in the trunk of his car.

First aid kit, jumper cables, etc.

15. A hobby that does not include a television set or a 6-pack of beer.

Does a computer count? I really like computers. If I need another hobby for the list, it would be travel. I just don’t get to travel nearly as much as I’d like.

16. A trusted barber or hair stylist.

I actually have a regular hair stylist at the Aveda Institue on Chicago’s north side.

17. A pair of jeans that makes his butt look good.

Check. According to Abigail I have a couple.

18. Jumper cables.

Check. See #14.

19. A driver’s license.

Check. I didn’t get it til I was 21, but if I am doing my math correctly that is well before 30. *smile*

20. Always enough toilet paper.

I stock up on the stuff every time it goes on sale.

Check back tomorrow for items #21-#30.


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30 by 30 – Part One

I’ll be turning 30 soon-ish and according to this recently posted article I have a number of things to obtain before I get there. Below you can find the list and what I am still “missing” according to The Frisky.

1. A skin care regimen.

My wife is helping me out with this one. I’m drinking more water that I used to and have hand/face lotion I use as often as I remember. That is just not very often at this point.

2. A tasty signature dish he can whip up for a date.

Not until recently (I’d say the last few weeks) have I started to try and cook outside of the box. And when I say “outside of the box” I mean that very literally. Many of the things I can make are of the the “just add water” type. Again, my wife is teaching me how to properly cook.

3. Respect for women as equals and not just as heads attached to boobs.

I’ve always respected women more than my average peers. I think my wife would agree with this. In many ways she is a better person than I.

4. At least four good pairs of shoes: dressy, business casual, casual, exercise.

Working on this. I have two nice pairs of dress shoes. A pair of casual shoes and a pair of flip fops. My business casual shoes are in need of replacement. I do have a proper pair of running shoes I started using regularly about two weeks ago.

5. At least one friend who gives honest fashion advice.

Check. My family, wife and a couple of friends let me know if I’m dressy properly or need some new help.

6. A tailored suit.

Not yet. However, I have plans to get one made on a free day if I can get to India later this year.

7. A toolbox that includes: a hammer, screwdriver, wrench, nails, work gloves.

I am missing the work gloves, but this is easily fixable.

8. Enough clean underwear (no holes!) to get him through a week between laundry sessions.

Check.

9. Independence from his mama.

Double check. I do however talk to her on the phone a several times a month and sometimes stop by to help out with computer or electronics questions.

10. The ability to ask for directions.

Check. I have no problem admitting that I have a horrible sense of direction. Even with a map or gps unit I can still get turned around.

Check back tomorrow for items #11-#20.

* Thanks to Annie Colbert for the tweet that alerted me to the story.

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Two Free Chicago Summer Events

Two of my favorite ways to experience Chicago in the summer are Movies in the Park and the Grant Park Music Festival. Movies in the Park is a great way to visit various parks around to city with a picnic basket of munchies, a blanket to put on the grass and a free flick for the evening. The Grant Park Music Festival makes for a great night out to experience culture and gaze at the stars. Both series of events make great date nights.

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Mountain Dew = Geek Drink?

Does liking Mountain Dew make you a geek? No.

Does liking Mountain Dew make you more likely to be a geek? Yes.

What do think? Leave your thoughts in the comments section below.

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I Make Websites for Job Hunters

Looking for a job? Let me setup a professional resume website for you this weekend! I design websites for individuals, small business, churches and non-profits. I’ve spent the last 13+ years making them look good online. Why not you?

Your personal resume site can include (but is not limited to):

- Your Resume
- An About Me Page
- Head Shot(s)
- Easy Contact Form
- Professional Domain Name (i.e. FirstLast.com, FirstLast.me, etc.)
- Professional Email Address (i.e. First@LastName.com, Me@FirstLastName.com, etc.)
- Hosting for 1-year
- Portfolio
- Cover Letter

Or anything else you have and want posted.

Contact me for more information.

I can work with almost all budgets and timelines, $100 or $1,000!

Let’s start working towards your future today! Email me with the following information for the fastest and most detailed response possible:

Budget (i.e. $200 or $750)
Timeline (i.e. 6 weeks or 3 days)
Domain Name (do you have one? what one do you want?)
What items do you want to be put on the site… resume, head shot, video clips, etc.

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The Countdown Begins Today

This was posted today at HelpSend.Us (our volunteer ministry fundraising blog). Abigail and I hope to go to India this October. Please read the post below and support us if you can. Thank you.

Today is July 1st. That means Abigail and I are entering the fundraising deadline countdown phase. As of today we have 62 days of fundraising left to raise $4,749.

We need to raise about $76 a day for the next two months in order to go to India this October. Can you HelpSend.Us? Donate now.

The goals of our trip to India include:

1.) Encouraging the local ministries already at work. As mentioned in our last post, Fuel International has a group of locally based missionaries running a newly opened children’s home in India and have ministry goals including church planting, village ministry and pastoral care. Beyond working with them for a few days we will be planning out the details for many of these ministry goals and setting up future projects.

2.) Experiencing the culture of India. Part of effective ministry is understanding culture. India has a very deep, complex and vibrant culture.

3.) Impact. Don’t think that our trip is too short to make an impact on the people of India. While we are there we will be encouraging, teaching and learning from our contacts. Not only will we be able to share our knowledge of ministry, but I am hoping that we learn. God can teach in many ways and I hope to learn from our friends in India things I would have never learned on my own.

Please pray for us as we fundraise and continue to plan out the details of the trip. Remember, we need to raise about $76 a day for the next two months in order to go to India this October. Will you HelpSend.Us by donating today?

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i heart playing cards

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look at what i just got in the mail…

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